With Harm To None
As a victim of domestic violence who became the target and family scapegoat I have decided to redecuate myself. My goal is to establish my new initiative, With Harm To None©️. I am working on establishing a new way for everyone. Unfortunately, there is so much misunderstood about domestic violence.
With Harm To None©️will be to work with others, never against. Working alongside others to re-train, re-educate, re-inspect and take a large step back when people are accused of violence or subjected to it. In my experience the aggressor was masked and was also the instigator. They meticulously created story lines to cover their tracks to create their scapegoat. The lack of accountability on the witnesses is also something that should be addressed, they need to be able to feel safe enough to speak up as well. It’s my experience that it is not intentional by authorities or those with “power” or even the witnesses to mask the issues. Simply put learning together can create peace and higher education.
I was diagnosed with PTSD years ago because I was continuously put in harm’s way, because of this not only have realigned my chakras, yes, I am a healer and a psychic medium, I have also decided to learn about my diagnosis. It is not incurable. There are many misnomers about PTSD and there are many many people who have it that you will never have been diagnosed. In fact, I bet you already know someone who does. It’s about energy and not how they respond but how they have been treated.
They are hiding something, and they need someone to take the fall, thus the scapegoat. Many times, this person is so innocent they have no idea what is coming, or no means, or no way to defend themselves as it was taken from me, including people. This is where the re-education in my opinion would open up new doors to healing. Nothing in these situations should be taken at face value.
Unfortunately, this is something that our justice system, education system and people of many communities are unaware of. There is evidence on both sides, however what happens when your side is never shown you are immediately guilty. Not what America stands for.
It’s time for change. It’s time for further investigations. It’s time for people to stop jumping to conclusions. It’s about people’s safety, the scapegoat’s safety.
What happens when they have pull in the community or friends that just assume they know them that in turn back them and their slander? What happens is they help create the scapegoat with them. They help keep that person a target. They continue the abuse on their behalf; they continue the isolation. Often times the worst ones find it funny and are proud of themselves. This is a true sign that person needs help.
Domestic Violence Advocates Are Key
I have one out of state to protect myself.
Visit one today.
There is more one than type of violence.
See the wheel.
Unfortunately, I learned the hard way you cannot always trust attorneys. Do your homework. Ask permission to speak up in court for your best interest.
Using the ## symbol is a sign of domestic violence. Please share. If you need help, go to your local authorities first. I made a mistake and never did. I asked for help as a little girl but no one believed me. I ran away at 14 and spent as much time as I could away from my “home”. I spent time up North with my grandmother and cousins as much as I could.
I was never allowed to be myself, I was beaten, left alone, sometimes even without food and constantly blamed for everything from their entire circle. Please trust yourself people. Know when to never go back.
I am gifted and have been since at least 3 years old. I was told to shut up, not now, no she’s not. No matter who went to my family to tell them, they disagreed with them. In fact there are others that have been harmed by the same people I have. They walked away sooner. I chose to try harder, which I was stupid for. That is codependency.
Trusting yourself and staying away from harmful people is the best piece of advice I can give you. I learned the hard way. I was intentionally and still am being blamed for things I never did.
I have even been told I have been places at times I never went, without proof, they just get to say it. Or there are times I have been slandered for fun. those people are sad.
I have been codependent so long that I thought they cared, I feel so much better for trusting myself and walking away.
Trust this I will never be the scapegoat again or the target
When they are desperate to make you their target, the scapegoat, or the victim they will make up anything they can to anyone who will “listen” to further their initiative; the coverup, the dishonesty, the fake loyalty, the money, & unfortunately their just plain jealousy. If you want to help instead of hurt, stop the process on their end. End the conversation. Go to the police for the victim, stand up in court, tell the truth. Help the victims. Be a good human.
