Some Forms of Abuse -These Are Intentional
What People Are Saying
Why does or did this happen? Because you, they, he, she lets them. They are continuously allowed to…
Instigating/Instigators
Intentionally harassing, making fun or other to get someone to react. This can be yelling, slandering, bullying, pushing, sabotaging…..any way someone or a group “attacks” you to get you to quote un quote snap, as in react. They want a reaction out of you.
When you don’t give it some will go as far as they can to get that reaction by any means possible.
Interrogate you until you stumble because it may even be made up so you are confused. They press you “instigate you” to get the reaction they need to seal the deal. Harmful.
Tell, You Are Not A Snitch
When it comes to your safety, your children’s safety tell. If you are in harm’s way tell.
Telling first is important, don’t wait. Those who do bad things often report the opposite and ‘pin’ it on you. (Scapegoat)
Target
When they decide you take the fall. Point and Shoot. (Verbal too!) Don’t let them. Don’t just walk away, don’t isolate yourself. Stand up to them. Call them out. You have every right to do that.
Confusion
When they, he or she tries to convince you otherwise.
Don’t Take The Bait
It’s a setup. For what purpose…look up⬆️ to be the scapegoat.
Starting Trouble, Assumptions
When people start trouble. Make stuff up.
Assume things, based on pure assumptions. She was here so that means…He said, so that means.
Entrapment
Luring someone in to set them up.
It can be verbally so they say something that is not only misconstrued they are cut off from speaking.
It can be physically.
It can be an entire scenario that causes a person to be criminally liable for another’s actions.
They do it for personal gain.
If you don’t then this will happen.
Financial Harm/ Abuse
Taking money away, or jobs away. Keeping them in positions where they cannot thrive, intentionally.
Sabotaging job opportunities.
Spending every cent so you do not have any left.
Taking property that is not yours. Passing off work that was done by others and profiting from it.
Passing off another’s identity or falsified permission to carry out the crime.
Con Artists
A person who tricks people into believing something that is not true.
They may provide false names. (Ask for 2 ids - insurance card)
Things they do:
Fabricate stories, lie about intentions, coerce, falsify documents, set up bank accounts, steal identities.
Pretend they are in distress.
Fake Illnesses
Create elaborate schemes, scams.
Types: personal, home, online, intellectual, general theft.
Ultimately, they do their best to gain your trust to pull off their agenda.
Sex Trafficking
Exploitation of other human beings.
People who send people to others for the sole purpose of sex (often disguised as a date)
Often they are very much aware when one person or the other is in a relationship. Intentional, Deliberate.
You may not know you are their target. Some do it to ruin others, their reputations, their integrity or for sole purpose of control. They may extort you.
Adults or Minors
By means of PayPal, Instagram or other. Receiving is illegal too.
Sexual Abuse
Molestation, Rape
Pregnancy intentionally (saving condoms, poking holes, …by any means necessary)
The opposite, lying about birth control. deceiving
False Pregnancies
Forcing women or men on people. (You have to date them, you have to take them, you both sleep here)
Forcing Dates or dating behind your significant others back.
Deceiving someone about being married or pretending to be married to cover up the relationship.
Lying about a relationship to ruin another’s. I am dating xxx, or I am sleeping with xxx knowing they are in a relationship. Sometimes their intention is to not only “steal” them to run their relationship by saying they are cheating or push the person to their breaking point until they cave and then cheat.
Intentionally sabotaging others relationships to gain.
Mail Theft or Fraud
Stealing your mail, A federal crime.
Using online bills with a “
fake address” then you print out and bring to the DMV to gain a new identity.
Some will go as far as picking an address of an unsuspecting person or the elde4rly pick you their mail and bring it in to gain a new identity or lease.
Slander
Attacking your character or credibility unlawfully.
Negligence
Violation of duty and care. Typically, the actions cause harm.
Without Cause
The act or the non-act of terminating exchanging or removing someone from a location or position unlawfully, unreasonably or willingly to cause or with the result of causing harm.
Control
When he she or they intend on being the one to maintain power over the other. They dominate your actions, feelings, thoughts, money, friends, relationships.
Examples: Where are you? Why? With Who? All the time.
My money is my money. Your money is our money.
Taking keys or other items so you may not leave or make calls or check ipads/computers.
Tracking you
Not telling the truth or where they are. “Messing with your head.”
Telling you what you can and cannot do or who you can and cannot spend time with or talk to.
Where you can go.
How long it should take you.
Your roles in the home or outside the home. Not equal. Not conducive your well being.
Who can be in your home.
Obstruction of Justice
When he she or interferes with the legal process.
tampering with evidence, hiding or refusing to share evidence
deleting files
intimidating
bribery
misleading a witness or an official
interfering with or ignoring administration of justice
using law enforcement, court officials judges juries or attorney's and those alike for personal gain. often time they hinder the progress of an investigation or lack there of because of ‘comradery’
unlawful procedures
continuing to obstruct when there is new information by not following through with protecting law and order.
providing, filing or giving false information for an arrest.
Breach of Confidentiality
Laws protect you for your safety. If you tell someone with a contract or agreement on your behalf if they tell anyone without your permission, you are protected by law.
it’s ok to tell.
sometimes telling one person is all you have to do. When it comes back to you, then you know if you can trust them or not.
when it affects your credibility or causes harm and you are privy to it turn them in or you are a accomplish and will be names.
educators
doctors, nurses, healthcare workers
therapists
officers
counselors
lawyers
bankers, brokers, insurance and realtors and those alike
financiers
people you trust
social workers
People can and will be fired, they take an oath that is why they have the positions. Its misappropriation of power and can be slander or harassment or may even jeopardizes someone’s safety.
Stop The Accusation
#1 When and Where
#2 With Who
#3 Nice Try
No Photos
Why? What is the secret? Are you secret or is it who they are with or where they are. Take the photos, create memories.
Furthermore, its coercion, abuse, neglect or maybe they tell you how ugly you look. “Take the photo down.” What kind of person wants to hide you or maybe their children, Its abuse. No photos, no evidence. In fact, you need photos of kids, not fun but just in case. Scary, not always a reality.
Photoshop - Edits - Add Ins - Fake Photos - Fake Videos. Be careful this is real. You can be superimposed into any photo or almost any position. Your voice can be copied too.
Isolation by Ostracization
It may start with one person. She/He/Them decides not to ‘include’ you not at one event but all. They tell others you couldn’t make it. They make you look you bad or fib and say you didn’t want to come.
”I don’t know she doesn’t care.”
Then the group joins in because they are mad or disappointed in you. Yet no one checked. How can you be somewhere when you didn’t know about it. Thus ostracizing. It is done with intent, on purpose. Don’t ask, don’t bother. They never come.
Buy Your Affection or Loyalty
When they, he or she give you free services but own you. Not to be kind.
When they continuously pay for one reason, you owe me. But when?
When they share what they have is not the same.
When they purchase you presents with expectations attached.
Don’t Be A Pawn
You are not a player in their game; you are part of their game. They use you.
She will do it; He will do it. “Let’s go.” If you don’t you lose…what do you lose. It depends on high the stakes are. Sometimes its business. Sometimes its friends. Sometimes its yourself worth.
Just To Be Mean
Some say it’s an illness others say it’s sociopathic. Enjoying causing harm in any way shape or form is abusive. Thei intention act of plotting
The intentional act of corroborating a “story”
The act of planning to make someone cry, be alone or to hurt them is sick.
Fake Evidence
Falsify documents, creating texts, editing or changing the context of a photo, creating videos, staging scenarios and providing false information is all illegal.
There are bots that create messages from your phone number to others.
Harassment
To create an unpleasant or hostile environment for someone. Intentionally.
It is uninvited and unwelcome, yet they do it anyway.
Victimize
Single someone out for cruel treatment. Unfair treatment, lie, bully.
Calling resource centers, doctors or police to intentionally sabotage and cause harm.
By any means necessary to keep you, their victim.
Extortion
Exploitation of other human beings.
It may be by means of force including psychological or physical, money or gifts.
They do what they need to do to get what they want or cover up what they did. Target, scapegoat, victim, fun, power, control.
You are in their pocket.
Adultery
Having sexual relations with a married person.
Filing False Police Reports or Witness Statements
Creating a story.
Sending fake evidence to back your fake claim.
Signing another’s name.
Calling / Filing a police report.
Impersonating a Police Officer
Or a Detective
Intellectual Theft
Including proprietary information. Creating business cards, store names, businesses/DBAs/, products, illegal solicitation of use, signage.
Unauthorized use of writing, wording ie name, company brands, intellectual property, inventions
Copyright Theft - Trademark Infringement
Patent Theft
Manipulation / Manipulator
Not limited to tricking you into something or believing something. It is a skill they have learned and proven by trial and error. The naive, innocent, un-suspecting or kind are the easiest targets.
To cause harm, to place blame and personal gain. To get what they want at a cost to you or fun.
They will lie, bend the truth, change the meaning or coerce or even steal. They will con at any risk.
Those negatively involved:For payment or exchange for something of value to you. Do not steal, forge documents and signatures, accepts gifts, paying of your bills, funding your business for personal gain for them at the cost of another's well-being or safety.
You are their pawn, new scapegoat so they hit their target. Guilty.
They don’t care about you. They buy you. They (The Manipulators) will put you in jail because you did it because they manipulated others or you into their agenda. Fake delivery at the cost to the accused/the innocent by the manipulators.
Telling others who they should feel when you treat them a certain way or how it should affect them.
Brainwashing
When someone or a group of people forcibly induct beliefs, fear, anxieties, harmful “thoughts”
or ideals to change your feelings, thoughts or behaviors to reflect their needs, wants or agenda. Intentionally coercing you into negative scary or even strange tasks. Including inflicting harm on themselves or others which may be by force if necessary.
Theft
To take something that does not belong to you. It can be secretive, sneaky, unlawful entry, when no one is looking or online theft.
products, goods or services
photos or images
items
property
Trust
Laws protect you for your safety. If you tell someone with authority that you are being harmed, not safe or need help they are bound to protect you. They are bound to tell or they are legally liable if anything happens to you or if who you are telling on is protected under false pretenses. Someone can sue on you can sue on your behalf they do not have to be a guardian or have a power of attorney. It can even be a neighbor you tell, telling one person is all you have to do. When it comes back to you or causes harm and you are privy to it turn them in or you are a accomplish and are bound by authority.
Reason To Turn Peple In:
When you have witnessed abuse or been informed of abuse and don’t turn them in its:
Lying about who you are, what you have done or not done, where you were or anything else.
wHEN YOU HAVE WITNESSED ABUSE OR HAVE
educators
doctors, nurses, healthcare workers
therapists
officers/judges
counselors
lawyers
bankers, brokers, insurance and realtors and those alike
financiers
people you trust
social workers
People can and will be fired, they take an oath that is why they have the positions. Its misappropriation of power and can be slander or harassment or may even jeopardizes someone’s safety.