Some Forms of Abuse -These Are Intentional
What People Are Saying
Why does or did this happen? Because you, they, he, she lets them. They are continuously allowed to…
Instigating/Instigators
Intentionally harassing, making fun or other to get someone to react. This can be yelling, slandering, bullying, pushing, sabotaging…..any way someone or a group “attacks” you to get you to quote un quote snap, as in react. They want a reaction out of you.
When you don’t give it some will go as far as they can to get that reaction by any means possible.
Interrogate you until you stumble because it may even be made up so you are confused. They press you “instigate you” to get the reaction they need to seal the deal. Harmful.
Tell, You Are Not A Snitch
When it comes to your safety, your children’s safety tell. If you are in harm’s way tell.
Telling first is important, don’t wait. Those who do bad things often report the opposite and ‘pin’ it on you. (Scapegoat)
Target
When they decide you take the fall. Point and Shoot. Don’t let them. Don’t just walk away, don’t isolate yourself. Stand up to them. Call them out. You have every right to do that.
Confusion
When they, he or she tries to convince you otherwise.
Don’t Take The Bait
It’s a setup. For what purpose…look up⬆️ to be the scapegoat.
Starting Trouble, Assumptions
When people start trouble. Make stuff up.
Assume things, based on pure assumptions. She was here so that means…He said, so that means.
Entrapment
Luring someone in to set them up.
It can be verbally so they say something that is not only misconstrued they are cut off from speaking.
It can be physically.
It can be an entire scenario that causes a person to be criminally liable for another’s actions.
They do it for personal gain.
If you don’t then this will happen.
Financial Harm/ Abuse
Taking money away, or jobs away. Keeping them in positions where they cannot thrive, intentionally.
Sabotaging job opportunities.
Spending every cent so you do not have any left.
Taking property that is not yours. Passing off work that was done by others and profiting from it.
Passing off another’s identity or falsified permission to carry out the crime.
Con Artists
A person who tricks people into believing something that is not true.
They may provide false names. (Ask for 2 ids - insurance card)
Things they do:
Fabricate stories, lie about intentions, coerce, falsify documents, set up bank accounts, steal identities.
Pretend they are in distress.
Fake Illnesses
Create elaborate schemes, scams.
Types: personal, home, online, intellectual, general theft.
Ultimately, they do their best to gain your trust to pull off their agenda.
Sex Trafficking
Exploitation of other human beings.
People who send people to others for the sole purpose of sex (often disguised as a date)
Often they are very much aware when one person or the other is in a relationship. Intentional, Deliberate.
You may not know you are their target. Some do it to ruin others, their reputations, their integrity or for sole purpose of control. They may extort you.
Adults or Minors
By means of PayPal, Instagram or other. Receiving is illegal too.
Sexual Abuse
Molestation, Rape
Pregnancy intentionally (saving condoms, poking holes, …by any means necessary)
The opposite, lying about birth control. deceiving
False Pregnancies
Forcing women or men on people. (You have to date them, you have to take them, you both sleep here)
Forcing Dates or dating behind your significant others back.
Deceiving someone about being married or pretending to be married to cover up the relationship.
Lying about a relationship to ruin another’s. I am dating xxx, or I am sleeping with xxx knowing they are in a relationship. Sometimes their intention is to not only “steal” them to run their relationship by saying they are cheating or push the person to their breaking point until they cave and then cheat.
Intentionally sabotaging others relationships to gain.
Mail Theft or Fraud
Stealing your mail, A federal crime.
Using online bills with a “
fake address” then you print out and bring to the DMV to gain a new identity.
Some will go as far as picking an address of an unsuspecting person or the elde4rly pick you their mail and bring it in to gain a new identity or lease.
Stop The Accusation
#1 When and Where
#2 With Who
#3 Nice Try
No Photos
Why? What is the secret? Are you secret or is it who they are with or where they are. Take the photos, create memories.
Furthermore, its coercion, abuse, neglect or maybe they tell you how ugly you look. “Take the photo down.” What kind of person wants to hide you or maybe their children, Its abuse. No photos, no evidence. In fact, you need photos of kids, not fun but just in case. Scary, not always a reality.
Photoshop - Edits - Add Ins - Fake Photos - Fake Videos. Be careful this is real. You can be superimposed into any photo or almost any position. Your voice can be copied too.
Isolation by Ostracization
It may start with one person. She/He/Them decides not to ‘include’ you not at one event but all. They tell others you couldn’t make it. They make you look you bad or fib and say you didn’t want to come.
”I don’t know she doesn’t care.”
Then the group joins in because they are mad or disappointed in you. Yet no one checked. How can you be somewhere when you didn’t know about it. Thus ostracizing. It is done with intent, on purpose. Don’t ask, don’t bother. They never come.
Buy Your Affection or Loyalty
When they, he or she give you free services but own you. Not to be kind.
When they continuously pay for one reason, you owe me. But when?
When they share what they have is not the same.
When they purchase you presents with expectations attached.
Don’t Be A Pawn
You are not a player in their game; you are part of their game. They use you.
She will do it; He will do it. “Let’s go.” If you don’t you lose…what do you lose. It depends on high the stakes are. Sometimes its business. Sometimes its friends. Sometimes its yourself worth.
Just To Be Mean
Some say it’s an illness others say it’s sociopathic. Enjoying causing harm in any way shape or form is abusive. Thei intention act of plotting
The intentional act of corroborating a “story”
The act of planning to make someone cry, be alone or to hurt them is sick.
Fake Evidence
Falsify documents, creating texts, editing or changing the context of a photo, creating videos, staging scenarios and providing false information is all illegal.
There are bots that create messages from your phone number to others.
Harassment
To create an unpleasant or hostile environment for someone. Intentionally.
It is uninvited and unwelcome, yet they do it anyway.
Victimize
Single someone out for cruel treatment. Unfair treatment, lie, bully.
Calling resource centers, doctors or police to intentionally sabotage and cause harm.
By any means necessary to keep you, their victim.
Extortion
Exploitation of other human beings.
It may be by means of force including psychological or physical, money or gifts.
They do what they need to do to get what they want or cover up what they did. Target, scapegoat, victim, fun, power, control.
You are in their pocket.
Adultery
Having sexual relations with a married person.
Filing False Police Reports or Witness Statements
Creating a story.
Sending fake evidence to back your fake claim.
Signing another’s name.
Calling in a police report
Impersonating a Police Officer
Or a Detective
Intellectual Theft
Including proprietary information. Creating business cards, store names, businesses/DBAs/, products, illegal solicitation of use, signage.
Unauthorized use of writing, wording ie name, company brands, intellectual property, inventions
Copyright Theft - Trademark Infringement
Patent Theft