They may lie about you, pick you apart for themselves or others. In some instances, it is fun for them or fulfilling. They feel powerful. They may even do it as a group because they are jealous of, they want something you have or they are harmful. Stand up for yourself and walk away.

Walk around with a camera, harassing you until they get what they need on video.

Tell false stories of you, edit photos, share fake information for one reason to gain power of you. To instill fear. To cause you harm because they have done something wrong. There are those that will see you for who you really are. They do exist. Their true colors will show. Keep your head up.

Plan events and say you could not make, yet you were never invited. They have a story about why. It’s not true. They will lie to say you made up stories about others, so the others dislike you or hate you. Again, for them to have power.

They gather to hurt others to cause damages which not only breaks communities it breaks people. They conform, sometimes unnoticeably. They intimidate, control, or harm create fear, scare tactics to block growth so they have power. They become vengeful to those who say No

Even if called solidarity or righteous anger, such groups ruin integrity, stop healing, and cut off higher guidance.

Often they don’t only stalk you in person they stalk your social media. They may even go as far as sending messages to your followers or people you follow to harass you.

Create fake DM’s or fake messages or fake posts by printing them out with an image of your social to cause harm.

Edit or create photos for fun to attempt to embarrass or use someone.

These individuals often work in groups. They are “clicks” that enjoy plotting on how to capture attention by targeting an individual.

Use the justice system to cause harm.

Use children to gain further attention to cause their target to harm. This is abusive to their child/children.

Label people as harmful, crazy, poor, ugly, on the spectrum, dirty, dangerous, a bad person, liar, a slut, a thief, broken, damaged, abusive….anything to support their gossip.

Have events where you are not allowed, yet you should be there. This is to make you look bad. “I don’t know why she didn’t show.” Have other secret relationships.

Force dates where you the spouse or the significant other are not invited, nor allowed.

Create stories to say “she/he””they” were there together, where were you?

Lock you out.

Have sex with multiple partners and preach monogamy to you.

Pay their bills, buy them gifts to love bomb you. Enlist their family & friends to cover it up. This teaches generational abuse.

Some women or men send other women & men I to ruin relationships. They want you to be alone, harmed or are just plain sick. They set up false information to make you look like the liar. The “crazy” person. Have people say they are dating or sleeping with you to further their harmful agenda.

Start conversations without you present to have people see you the way the abuser wants you to be seen. “She is really awkward, I hate her outfits…she has no friends..” As a human we sometimes see what we are told to see, by influence.